Raising Bilingual Baby: Challenges and Benefits
The Wheeler Family’s Journey
Living in South Florida, we’re used to hearing people talk multiple languages, and for many, it starts at a young age. Becoming bilingual can come with its challenges, especially for families with diverse backgrounds. However, there are benefits and best practices for raising a bilingual baby.
The Wheeler home is a reflection of many homes here in South Florida. A blend of languages, backgrounds, traditions. Cristina and Anthony live in Miramar with their two children and their in-laws. Their children, now 13 and 17 years old, were raised speaking both Spanish and English, and while they learned, so did dad.
"It was a little challenging, at first, especially when the kids were born, people were in my ear like ‘no, teach them just Spanish but I was like I can’t because my husband is a gringo," said Cristina Wheeler.
Bilingual Advantage
Children that are so young, learn way quicker than us adults because their mind is so flexible and malleable that that’s why it’s better that we teach them at a younger age," said Jacqueline Lopez, who works as a bilingual and language speech pathologist in Miami. She says it can be challenging to raise a child to speak more than one language, but it’s immensely beneficial.
"There’s evidence that shows that children and adults who are bilingual, they have increased problem-solving skills as well as increased creativity, and it also shows that there’s a different appreciation for different cultures and an understanding for different cultures," continued Lopez.
Approaches to Bilingualism
There are many approaches to achieving bilingualism even when only one parent speaks the target language. "One thing that they can do that’s very easy is that mom sticks to one language, dad sticks to one language, and they are receiving both languages and receiving both models," encouraged Lopez.
It’s called the One Parent, One Language (OPOL) method. Another approach is Time and Place.
"We talk in English all day, but in bath time, we’re going to speak in Spanish, and then that will just give them a lot of exposure as well to different common objects, common words," said Lopez.
Fostering Bilingualism
The goal is consistency and repetition, and as much as Spanglish is the unofficial language of South Florida, Lopez cautions it can be confusing for the little ones.
"We want to do, ‘please go get the cup in the kitchen, busca el vaso en la cocina’ so they learn this is the rules and regulations, this is the grammar, this is the syntax and then once they’re masters at it then it’s okay," said Lopez.
Community Support
El Groupito, a Spanish playgroup, was created to foster the Spanish language for children. It meets weekly with events and activities, and its founder, Geovanna Soberon, has seen a significant response.
"I started in the parks, as a playgroup, that was just the idea, just being a simple playgroup. Then, people started asking for more. Let’s do events, let’s do this, let’s do that and it blew my mind all these families looking for this space," she said.
Conclusion
Raising a bilingual baby can be a challenge, but with the right approach, it can be a rewarding experience for the entire family. Whether it’s through the One Parent, One Language (OPOL) method or the Time and Place approach, consistency and repetition are key. With the support of community groups like El Groupito, families can foster a love for languages and cultures, giving their children a brighter future.
FAQs
Q: Can bilingualism cause speech delays?
A: No, bilingualism does not cause speech delays. In fact, studies show that bilingual children have increased problem-solving skills and increased creativity.
Q: How do I get started in raising a bilingual child?
A: Start by incorporating the target language into your daily routine, even if it’s just a few words a day. Set aside specific times for language use, such as bath time or mealtimes.
Q: What are some tips for teaching a second language to a child?
A: Consistency and repetition are key. Use flashcards, watch TV shows and movies in the target language, and speak with native speakers.
Q: What are some community resources for bilingual families?
A: Look for local playgroups, language exchange programs, and cultural events that celebrate diverse languages and cultures.
