A Few Years Ago, Todd Lerew Began Collecting Club Memberships in Los Angeles
Lerew, 38, joined clubs you’ve probably heard of, like the Elks, the L.A. Historical Society and the Auto Club of California (AAA), and clubs you probably haven’t, like the Cookie Cutter Collectors Club, the International Banana Club and the American Fancy Rat & Mouse Assn. He joined so many clubs, in fact, that he needed a second wallet to hold all his membership cards.
The Benefits of Joining a Club
Joining a club or society where you might meet like-minded people has a wide range of health benefits. It wards off loneliness, which is associated with increased risk of heart disease, high blood pressure and stroke, and has reached epidemic proportions in the United States. Above all else, it brings meaning to our lives.
Increased Sense of Purpose
“Many of us find that once we join a group we get more responsibility and we feel we are needed, and that gives us a sense of purpose,” said Sam Pressler, a fellow at University of Virginia’s Karsh Insitute of Democracy, where he studies community and social connection. “That’s a critical piece.”
Expanded Support Networks
Joining a club can also increase your support networks, which might come in handy the next time you’re looking for a job, experiencing a health crisis or need someone to watch your kid.
The Extensive Club Offerings in L.A.
“Think of something you’re into, a fan of, enjoy doing, or identify by and there’s almost guaranteed a group already that’s doing that,” Lerew said. Maybe you love making kaleidoscopes, or feminist literature, or the history of the circus — in Los Angeles, there’s a club for that.
Advice for Joining a Club
If you do decide to join one, Lerew suggests keeping a few things in mind: You may feel uncomfortable at first, or members may be wary of newcomers, but if you’re genuinely interested in it, you should stick with it regardless.
“You just have to not stop,” Lerew said.
Don’t Overthink It
“Get out there, and you’ll find people,” Lerew said. “And if they’re not your people, that’s OK. Your people are somewhere else.”
Getting Started
Below are a few ideas to get you started:
Conclusion
Joining a club can be a great way to meet new people, learn new skills, and find a sense of community. With so many options available in Los Angeles, there’s sure to be something for everyone.
FAQs
Q: What are some benefits of joining a club?
A: Joining a club can help you meet new people, learn new skills, and find a sense of community. It can also increase your sense of purpose and provide a support network.
Q: How do I find a club that’s right for me?
A: Think about what you’re interested in and search for clubs that align with those interests. You can also ask friends, family, or coworkers for recommendations.
Q: What if I feel uncomfortable at my first club meeting?
A: It’s normal to feel a little awkward at first, but try to stick with it. If you’re genuinely interested in the club, you’ll likely find that the discomfort fades away as you get to know the other members.
Q: What if I don’t find a club that I love?
A: That’s okay! There are many clubs to choose from, and it may take some trial and error to find the one that’s right for you. Don’t be discouraged if you don’t find a club that you love at first – keep looking, and you’ll eventually find one that fits your interests and personality.
